Well, I find myself most of the time in dilemma in whatever I am doing , Is this right or wrong ? . And if you decide to ask people around you , you will have options , reasons as many as number of people . What we do in such situations , Take a pen pencil , write all pros and cons of the choices and then decide based on priorities , few people like me who thinks by heart will go with the option towards which heart will be inclined more, whether its the best option or not. Long time back , I read somewhere , “Just listen to your instincts and you can never be wrong “, but this is not the case , I am proved wrong many a times where I choose my heart over brains. So this means should I go by the signals sent by my brains , but then my inner conscience will be with me , will I have the peace , I don’t think so. All of us must have seen the movie “Jab we met” , in one scene of the movie , Shahid asks Kareena Why you doing all this mess , this is not right , but then she replies to which I agree almost completely . She says , I do whatever my heart says , and even if I may be proved wrong , but then i will have the satisfaction , i did what i wanted , i will not be blaming anybody , it will be me who will be totally responsible for what happening to me , that would be a better situation rather than curbing all your wishes.
I often say , nothing is wrong unless you hurt somebody to achieve your goals, just be true to yourself and others.
These days everything around us is changing at a high speed , Its not at all like our parents time . All emotions like trust , love have been lost in the crowd. All of us are just running like anything , without any motive , loosing all our peaceful sleeps to so many materialistic things around us. The life style is changing , live in relationship are in which are completely against our culture , but then was the traditions and customs in our culture was right ? Was it right to have so many wives , or treating people on basis of their work.
well , i dont think so we can decide if anything we doing is right or wrong , so we can just make sure that we don’t hurt anybody’s sentiments