So here’s another type of feeling or emotion which is common but I guess more than unknown it is unsaid.
“Once upon a time” I went to my friend’s cubicle in office. I wanted to ask her something related to updating personal data on the official website. She was eating some fruit. I swear I didn’t even saw what she was having but she had a “dhaska” (I don’t know what we call it in English 😛 I hope you all will understand its like when something stuck while eating). I helped her by patting her on back and was about to offer her water when she said she is “OK” . She then resolved my issue and I came back to my place. But there was something in my mind going on …Will she think that “Meri us fruit per Nazar lag gayi ? That’s why She had a dhaska while eating”. I was feeling so bad… OMG she will think about me like this.
So many such incidents happen in our day-to-day life where we are in an awkward situation without any reason.
Another kind of incident: There are 100’s of people sitting in a forum and all of a sudden you ask a silly question just out of curiosity. You realize later but whenever you remember this incident you feel irritated like How could you ???? :(. Unfortunately there is no UNDO button for such things.
We often come across such situation when we say such things which reminds the other person of a bad incident of his/her life. I remember once unknowingly discussing “PS : I love you ” with one of my friend. Later on I got to know that similar kind of incident happened with her boyfriend. I felt so bad, angry, irritated, guilty.
In such cases you do a mistake unknowingly but you will have to carry the guilt all your life.
CAN we do anything about this ???